Are
you boring when it comes to love? Finding ways to say I love you isn't an easy
task if you're stuck in a rut. Before you can get out of that rut and liven up
your love life it's important to see if you are, in fact, being
"boring."
After you answer the following questions for yourself we
will go through each one step by step. There is hope for you after all!
1.
You only say I Love You in response to the other person
2.
Your Valentine's Day Gift to your love was flowers and chocolates
3.
You've been together for years
4.
You have children
OK,
so which ones did you see yourself in?
If
you are one who only says "I Love You" when the other person does,
that is simply boring. Not only that but it's likely to make the other person
feel a little bummed out that you aren't taking more initiative. Even if YOU
know that you love the other person that doesn't mean they don't need a
constant reminder.
To
fix this, it's important to say I love you each day. Say it with the conviction
you feel in your heart. That way there is no question of your true feelings!
As
for the second question, if you only gave your love a box of chocolates and
flowers then that is boring. Even if you had the best of intentions you have to
admit that that game is played out. This doesn't mean that you need to spend a
lot of money it just means you need to do a bit more. Think about the other
person's desires and wishes! Give them a gift that matches their personality.
The
third question stumps a lot of people. It's not hard to answer, but it is hard
to remedy. You'll have to find new ways to say I love you if you want to make
sure that the spark of love stays alive. It's important to find great ways to
do that!
The
fourth question can almost be lumped with the third. If you have children it's
likely that you're focused on them instead of on your partner. You think you're
doing what is best for them by concentrating on them alone. This is partially
faulty thinking because they rely on you for inspiration and enjoy having their
parents in love. Even if they won't admit it! You need to find new ways to say
I love you to keep the relationship going.
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